Praying for my Moms fight with Mulitple Myeloma

2009-11-05T18:36:00.000-08:00

Memorial Service is Saturday the 7th at 3pm......... We look forward to celebrating my Moms life with all of her friends and family....

Making Plans

2009-11-04T19:40:00.000-08:00

Today we began making plans for our final goodbye. We spent the day looking at pictures and remembering our Mom. Together we are trying to think of ways to honor her memory. The family asks that in lieu of flowers donations be sent to Christ Community Church Laguna Hills noting Virgina Smith Memorial Fund. The memorial service will be held at 3pm.

Christ Community Church Laguna Hills
25382 Mackenzie
Laguna Hills, CA 92653
(949)586-6850

Saying Goodbye

2009-11-03T19:53:00.000-08:00

Today we said goodbye.. I will post more later but she went peacefully with all of our family at her side... We know she is in a better place but still are heartbroken and in shock.. Continue to pray for our family as we make plans. We are thinking Friday services but will know for sure tomorrow.. Thanks for all of the love and prayers!

Update

2009-11-03T10:04:00.000-08:00

Last night we were able to go together as a family and see my Mom. All of us kids Christy, Carrie and I were able to spend a few minutes alone with her.My Dad also was able to spend a few minutes with her while her sedation was lower . It is time that is so hard but something that we will remember forever. Andrew and Amanda her oldest grand kids also were permitted to go in as well. Our immediate family was there to be with us as well as a few close friends. Right now we are waiting to hear from the doctors to see if any progress has been made in her condition. Then major decisions about her care will probably be made today please pray for peace wisdom and guidance for all. Also please pray that my mom continues to feel peace and comfort as well as the love we all feel for her. Many of you have asked what can we do right now prayer is the best thing that we all need. How do you deal with the potential loss of one of the most significant people in your life ? Prayer is the only way we are all functioning and we are so grateful for all the love and support. As we get more information today I will update...

2009-11-02T15:23:00.000-08:00

As many of you know my mom was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma in 2007. During the last few years we have prayed and watched her struggle to battle this disease. We knew when she was diagnosed that the disease was not curable but treatable. Recently this has become very clear as her cancer has returned. The last year has been one with many good times as we have enjoyed having our Mom back and my parents have been able to enjoy time together with friends and family. She has spent many days with all of her grandchildren and friends sometimes even pushing herself to exhaustion to not miss anything. Two weeks ago my parents set out on what now appears to be her last trip. They went back east to visit friends and enjoy the change in seasons. While there she became very ill. Upon her return it was discovered she had pneumonia and kidney failure. She was admitted to the hospital Friday night in serious condition. Saturday things began to deteriorate and she began to struggle for breath. They decided to put her on a ventilator as well as continuous dialysis. It appears this could be the end of her battle. We have watched her struggle and and know that the time is coming when we will have to say goodbye. We are praying now for peace and comfort for her in these days. Please pray for her as well as all who love her. We will update this blog with current information as we know more. Please check here for the most current information on her condition and ways to pray and help. I speak for my entire family when I say we love all of you and appreciate the prayers and concern for my Mom who not only is my Mom but one of my best friends. Below is part of a letter my dad sent to a few close family and friends. Thank you for your love and prayers-Katie

"As for Ginny, our family has been told this afternoon to be prepared for the inevitable. Not only is she critical but her cancer is rampant since her body is so weak. They are preparing for a “care & comfort” stage. All directives have been discussed. We expect her to enter that stage in the next 24 hours. She is being sustained but it is likely she is unsustainable. At that time, depending on her progress, they will decide whether to discontinue their assistance. From that time on it will be to wait.
I hope to let you know when there is more to report. Thanks for your love and support. Ginny deeply loved you all.

I am heartbroken but comforted by family and friends. My faith finds refuge in the truth “God is good, therefore, whatever He does is good.”

Resting in God’s goodness

Don